
| Location | Gouda, The Netherlands |
| Age | 67 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 10/07/1942 |
| Date of Death | 20/10/2009 |
| Visitors | 104 since 03/11/2009 |
| Creator |
I'm writing this in English because this message will likely be viewed across many continents.
A few words about my beloved father… Ben’s funeral service on saturday,
october 24th, 2009 was absolutely amazing! Maaike Widdershoven sang,
ace Pella, the Dutch version of “There is a place for us”
(from West-Side Story). It was a very emotional yet
beautiful way to start this somber farewell service.
After that there were four very touching speeches delivered by: Felix, Jan, Loo and Wim. Concluded
with more music and an opportunity to say goodbye for all friends and family attending (well over
250 people over two days).
It was very emotional, touching and beautiful all at the same time. It's hard to put in words but
the way the service played out was truly above and beyond our expectations!
Dad would have loved it this way in my opinion. Ben's bright smile and optimistic outlook on life
will be missed immensely but the way he danced through life and his beautiful spirit will remain in
our hearths forever.
Thanks for the outpouring of support from all over the globe! It will never be forgotten!
Last but not least…please send a card or call my mom one of these days. She really needs the
support of her friends at this very difficult point in her life.
Many thanks to all that made the service such wonderful remembrance of our beloved father. Including
everyone who send e-mails, cards and flowers.
Best regards,
Jasper van der Zwaan.
Via Con Dios Pappa....
♥ Yesterday's ♥
♥ I open up my heart to God
In my own special way
♥ I dont ask for tomorrows
I want all my yesterdays
♥
My yesterdays were happy
♥ For they included you
So much love and laughter
We shared just me and you
♥
Tomorrow is just another word
It means nothing to me
♥ Please give me back my yesterdays
And my Angel back with me.
♥
♥ MISSED SO MUCH ♥
4th November 2009
♥
✝ • ♥ • ✞ Just Like a rainbow, ✝ • ♥ • ✞
Fading in the twinkling of an eye………
✝ • ♥ • ✞ Gone Too Soon . ✝ • ♥ • ✞
♥
Dad x
Our Father kept a garden.
A garden of the heart;
He planted all the good things,
That gave our lives their start.
He turned us to the sunshine,
And encouraged us to dream:
Fostering and nurturing the seeds of self-esteem.
And when the winds and rain came,
He protected us enough;
But not too much because she knew
We would stand up strong and tough.
His constant good example,
Always taught us right from wrong;
Markers for our pathway that will last
a lifetime long.
We are our Fathers garden,
We are his legacy.
Thank you Dad we love you.
So sorry for your loss, i am sure your Dad will be so proud of the wonderful tribute you have written about him x
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